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what do you do when your teen never comes home by there curfue?

moe01 asked:

my teen is always late.during the week 9 oclock.he dont get home untill10 or 11. and on the weekends 11 oclock. and dont get home untill12 or1am.grounding dont work.its like he has no respect for any one in the house. wecant give him a key because it will land in wrong hands.so we have to leave the door open for him what how do we deal with this kid

13 Comments

  1. Sydney S wrote:

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    DON”T LET THEM GO OUT!!!!

    Tuesday, December 14, 2010 at 5:04 am | Permalink
  2. Bry wrote:

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    Take away personal items like computer, phone, ipod whatever and don’t give them back until he starts coming home on time.

    Wednesday, December 15, 2010 at 6:12 am | Permalink
  3. Josephine wrote:

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    Wow, you need a grammar book.

    Wednesday, December 15, 2010 at 5:35 pm | Permalink
  4. Mmmazing;☮ wrote:

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    Ground him. And take away things to punish him also.

    Thursday, December 16, 2010 at 2:18 pm | Permalink
  5. starzzzy wrote:

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    Your son is being disrespectful to your rules and you should tell him at the same time you tell him he can’t go out anymore. After a while of staying at home, gradually let him go out on weekends first but only until 9. He will quickly realize you mean business! On those weekdays he used to go out, make him spend time doing chores or reading a book and writing you a book report, or maybe volunteering somewhere in your community since he likes to be social. Give it some time and be very persistent, things will work out.

    Thursday, December 16, 2010 at 3:33 pm | Permalink
  6. ººVaL KaZºº wrote:

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    HELP ME PLEASE! i’m about to die!

    Saturday, December 18, 2010 at 2:39 pm | Permalink
  7. HALF MY HEART IS IN IRAQ wrote:

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    If he misses curfew lock your doors and go to bed. Leave him out there wishing he came home on time. Then when he goes to call you that is when you take stuff away from him and enforce your rules again. My parents ended up taking my keys away from me once. They took away my phone and computer privileges. So it was school then home. My mom would actually take the keyboard and my phone and keys to work with her. Take away everything that would give him any communication to his friends but a telegram. Even then I wouldn’t let him send it out. Have you thought about calling the cops on him? If there is a curfew in your neighborhood then you should. It should be enforced on school nights. Hope I could help!

    Sunday, December 19, 2010 at 11:12 am | Permalink
  8. Jenna (new account) wrote:

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    Don’t let him leave the house.. haha

    Tuesday, December 21, 2010 at 3:49 am | Permalink
  9. Flyin' Hawaiian wrote:

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    I don’t think he’s disrespecting you. I think there’s just a misunderstanding based on your atrocious grammar. He’s probably confused as hell. Your conversation probably goes something like this.

    Him: Hey mom, I’m going to a friend’s house. What time am I supposed to be home?

    You: Ok boy 9 o’clock you don’t come home 10 clock.

    Him: Wow I can stay out til 10? Thanks!

    You: Boy I say don’t come home 11 weekends 1am.

    Him: [Pause]

    You: Boy you is grounded if come home 12 o’clock.

    Him: …you are so retarded…see you at 10.

    Thursday, December 23, 2010 at 6:04 pm | Permalink
  10. kurt wrote:

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    GIVE HIM A FUCKEN COOKIE!!!!!!

    Friday, December 24, 2010 at 7:15 am | Permalink
  11. Suzzane wrote:

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    Oh man, I agree. For the sake of your children, get a grammar book.

    1st. It’s “curfew”.

    2nd. Replace all of your “dont”s with “doesn’t”. Using ‘dont’ incorrectly makes you sound like a hillbilly.

    3rd. “Until” has only one L.

    Saturday, December 25, 2010 at 12:45 pm | Permalink
  12. lizzles_x wrote:

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    Just dont give him a curfew, then you wont get upset at the time he comes in.
    What age is your son? cause 9 oclock is a bit early, and so is 11 at weekends.

    Saturday, December 25, 2010 at 2:16 pm | Permalink
  13. Alpha WolfPup © 2008 wrote:

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    Ummm. . . don’t let them go out.

    Monday, December 27, 2010 at 9:48 pm | Permalink